GOOD GRIEF: ON LOVING PETS, HERE AND HEREAFTER
Good Grief media coverage:
- Features: The Boston Globe, Be.Chewy, Nobles Magazine, Nashoba Brooks School Magazine, The Lexington Minuteman, The Wellesley News, The Wildest, AARP Magazine, Catster Magazine, and The Behavior Therapist (the journal of the Association of Behavioral and Cognitive Therapy).
- Radio: WBUR’s Here & Now (originally aired on August 22, 2022 and reaired on January 25, 2023), 99.3 County FM in Prince Edward County, Ontario, Voice America’s Good Grief Radio with Cheryl Jones, and Doctor Radio (a partnership between NYU Langone and SiriusXM).
- Podcasts: Mother of Dogs (a book review in episode 4 and a longer conversation in episode 5!), DOG-EARED with Lisa Davis, Corgi Town USA, A Fiber Life, Grief in Brief, The 7am Novelist (October 2022 edition and March 2023 edition), iHeart Radio’s The Arik Korman Show, Top of Mind with Julie Rose, Library Love Fest, Writer’s Bone, Debut Spotlight, Radio Pet Lady’s Dog Talk (And Kitties Too!), and a shout-out on Death, Sex & Money!
- Interviews: 1-800-Flowers.com Light After Loss series, Boston.com, Reddit (audio AMA), Reddit (written AMA), Psychology Today, AKC.org, Chicago Review of Books, Fiction Advocate, Arlington MA Neighborhood Newsletter, the Brevity blog, and the Off Assignment newsletter.
- Reviews: Kirkus, Publishers Weekly, Library Journal, Shelf Awareness, The Wellesley News, Booklist, The Washington Independent Review of Books, and Wellesley Magazine.
- Lists & Shout-Outs: “8 Great Books to Read about the Relationships Between Humans and Animals” and “8 Surprising New Memoirs to Add to Your TBR ASAP” on Book Riot, Library Journal, Modern Dog Magazine (winter 2022 issue), Parnassus Books, Literary Hub, Wellesley Magazine, The Boston Globe, New Castle Public Library, Henderson County Public Library, Campaign for the American Reader, HarperCollins’s Bookperk newsletter, veterinarian Karen Fine’s list of pet loss resources, and the Green Pet-Burial Society’s list of recommended books, articles, and films.
- Awards & Honors: Book of the Day for January 26, 2023, September + October 2022 Roslindale Book Ambassador, named a Writer’s Bone Best Book of 2022, and Good Grief was the number one bestselling book of 2022 at Newtonville Books!
- Essays & Articles: Slate, Salon, Literary Hub, The Shepherd, Wellesley Magazine, Largehearted Boy, Off Assignment, Modern Dog Magazine (“Dead Dog Love Story” in the spring 2023 issue and a “Tiny Dog Story” in the summer 2023 issue), The Wildest (re-print of my essay about pet composting on Slate), and two essays on Cognoscenti: “‘Mass Ave Lola’ wasn’t my dog, but she helped me feel at home” and “When pets outlive their people”.
- Excerpts: Literary Hub and Boston.com.
- TEDx Talk: “Why Everyone Should Talk About Pet Death.”
“Good Grief is just what the doctor ordered—a wonderful, unusual, and healing book, full of wisdom and compassion. Nothing can erase the searing sorrow of losing an animal you love. But this insightful, inspiring, intelligent book will offer real comfort. E.B. Bartels’ extensive and fascinating research reveals deep and transformative truths about the essential process of grieving. Read this book to affirm that love never dies, and you are not alone.”
—Sy Montgomery, New York Times bestselling author of How to Be a Good Creature
“Good Grief is a tender and often funny guide that celebrates the imaginative and far-fetched and entirely ordinary ways we grieve, celebrate, and memorialize—and, yes, sometimes try to preserve—our departed pets. While author E.B. Bartels provides arcane and fascinating details of mummification, cloning, taxidermy, and freeze drying, the heart of Good Grief lies in the profound lessons our animal companions provide—both in life and in death.”
—Cat Warren, author of What the Dog Knows: Scent, Science, and the Amazing Ways Dogs Perceive the World
Good Grief: On Loving Pets, Here and Hereafter is an unexpected, poignant, and personal account of loving and losing pets, exploring the singular bonds we have with our companion animals, and how to grieve them once they’ve passed.
E.B. Bartels has had a lot of pets—dogs, birds, fish, tortoises. As varied a bunch as they are, they’ve taught her one universal truth: to own a pet is to love a pet, and to own a pet is also—with rare exception—to lose that pet in time.
But while we have codified traditions to mark the passing of our fellow humans, most cultures don’t have the same for pets. Bartels takes us from Massachusetts to Japan, from ancient Egypt to the modern era, in search of the good pet death. We meet veterinarians, archaeologists, ministers, and more, offering an idiosyncratic, inspiring array of rituals—from the traditional (scattering ashes, commissioning a portrait), to the grand (funereal processions, mausoleums), to the unexpected (taxidermy, cloning). The central lesson: there is no best practice when it comes to mourning your pet, except to care for them in death as you did in life, and find the space to participate in their end as fully as you can.
Punctuated by wry, bighearted accounts of Bartels’s own pets and their deaths, Good Grief is a cathartic companion through loving and losing our animal family.